Unconditional love vs. boundaries

They say we are suppose to love unconditionally. That when we truly love someone - we love them as they are, and we dont try to change them. But what if that person crosses your boundary? Are you suppose to react? Should you forgive and forget? Should you try to change your perspective? Where is …

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I don’t care whether you like me. I like me

... or as my friend has actually put it: Bro, I give zero fucks whether you like me. I like me. A lot has been said and written about romantic relationships between men and women. A lot of movies, books, articles, examples from our own and friends' lives - with one undeniable silver lining: If …

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It’s me. It’s always me. And always has been

Relationships. Why do we make them so painful. Why do we still prefer war over love... I had really difficult childhood. I lived in poverty, sometimes with no food, in constant fights, aggression, hatred, blame and pain. I grew up learning that I am nothing if I don't get good grades. I was blamed, shamed …

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