I can’t express how grateful I am for the life I have. For lots of joy, love, and constant manifestations of my dreams. All things magically fall into place. I turn around and see the orchestration of events which led me to where I am now, and I love the feeling of realizing that everything happened for a reason,and it could not have happened in a better way…
My life hasn’t always been like that. I was suffering and playing victim for very long time. I was chasing men and I saw my life purpose in marriage. I was drinking, smoking, wasting time and money in bars. I was crying and worried and anxious 90% of my wake time, and even when I laughed – deep down I suffered and hated my life.
My soul was craving for freedom, but my brain was comfortable in pain. Our brain is designed for self-protection – it fears unknown and resists change. Our logical mind (or ego, or consciousness) wants us to stay in familiar place, because it knows it’s safe – nothing unexpected can come out.
But our souls crave for more.
Painful breakup up was my soul’s wake up call. When you fall down to bottom – there is no other way but start crawling up. When your pain is unbearable – you finally stop being comfortable and you pray for relief.
And it always comes.
Things start to move. People come at exact time and place and bring you exactly what you can handle at this moment. Of course, you expect your pain to go away as soon as possible, but its not going to happen. Not right now.
You will receive a friend who goes trough similar experience and who will listen to you for hours. Because this is the only thing you can handle.
You will receive new partner who loves you genuinely but you know that you dont feel the same way. Because feeling loved is what you need on this stage.
You will read hundreds of articles on how to go trough break up, which will resonate exactly with what you are feeling now.
Each day you will feel a little better and relieved, but you are still far away from full healing. And it’s okay.
Then, right when you need it and feel ready – you will discover the concept of self-love. And this is the moment your life will finally take sharp turn towards happiness.
Self-love became my nr.1 priority and my life purpose. No thing, no person, no event will ever bring true happiness if you don’t love yourself.
You want healthy, happy relationships, but are stuck with abusive partner?
Start loving yourself.
You want career, money, fulfillment, but have no idea where to start from?
Start loving yourself.
You want perfect body, health, beauty?
Start loving yourself the way you are right now.
It’s really simple.
When you love yourself – you feel worthy of things and people you desire, and they start coming.
When you love yourself – you appreciate your ideas and you act on them.
When you love yourself – you start attracting teachers, courses, coaches, articles, books, events. At the right time. At the right place.
Feeling worthy is fundamental vibration to trigger law of attraction.
Your past doesn’t matter. You can start changing your life at any given moment. You are never stuck.
I have started with Mirror work technique from Louise Hay. Louise is my first real inspiration on the journey to happiness.
Every morning, right after you wake up – go to the mirror, look into your eyes and say “I love you! I really really love you. I wish you a wonderful day!”
During day whenever you pass by the mirror – say something like “How are you doing cutie?”
Whenever something good happens, go to the mirror and thank yourself for this amazing experience.
When something unfortunate happens – immediately go to the mirror and say: “I love you anyway!”
When you walk down the street, repeat an affirmation: “I love and approve of myself”. Hundred times.
It will feel awkward and strange, and you may not believe it at first. But keep on repeating it daily, for at least 30 days. At some point you will turn around and realize that it’s working.
When light and love inside of you starts growing – you will discover other techniques, teachers and other ways to improve your life.
But start with one thing at a time. And be patient. Rewiring your brain for happy life after years of negativity will not happen over night. But you will feel a bit better every day.
It does work. It worked for Louise, it works for millions of people who follows her ideas, it works for me. It will work for you too.
Start small and simple, but start today. In few months you will be amazed by how easy and joyful life can be.